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The Berkshire Lady

A masked lady draws her sword. Marry me, she says, or fight.

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The Berkshire Lady

Wed me or fight me, sir. Choose.

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What's there
Golf course in former deer park
Legend from
Ballad / local romance
Tone
Light-hearted
Customs

Before you go

Calcot Park is now a private golf club. Check before you go.

  • Calcot Park
  • Near A4
  • The pin is approximate.

A masked heiress, a drawn sword, and a choice: fight me or marry me.

Royal Berkshire History tells the story of the Berkshire Lady. In 1707 a London lawyer, Benjamin Child, went to a society wedding in Reading hoping to find a rich wife. A masked young woman later challenged him to fight her with swords or marry her at once. He chose marriage, was taken to St Mary's in Reading, and then driven to a great house in a deer park, where he was left waiting. The bride turned out to be the heiress Frances Kendrick of Calcot Park. The tale was made into a popular ballad.

One sourceOnly one written account of this legend has been found so far.

Sources

  1. The Berkshire Lady, Royal Berkshire History (David Nash Ford) —

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